Not all Toys are made for boys!!!

Not all toys are made for boys..

J. Lee Roberts

In a world made for, made by, and made to order for men, women get the best toys. I'm not talking about radio controlled cars, or shoot-em-up video games. I'm talking about vibrators.

I bet your first instinct is to shy away, to blush and click to another page. But you wont. You can't. Because you know I am right. If you haven't taken the initiative to find out for yourself what the world of self pleasuring equipment can do for, or shall I say to you, now is the time.

Imagine walking in to a party, finding the nearest hunk, and offering up your sexuality without a moments hesitation. He takes you in to a dark corner, hikes up your skirt and penetrates your sacred space. You wiggle and squirm rolling your hips, savoring every sensation. A burning builds, your toes curl and you explode. For Catalina, Queen of the Nightlings this scenario happens quite frequently. But, as I am about to divulge, it is not the norm for everybody. How about you?

I'm going to share something very personal with you. It took me nearly 25 years to discover this for myself, well actually it took that long to admit this to myself. I can not have an orgasm by simple sexual penetration. There I said it, now I am going to shout it. PENISES DO NOT GET ME OFF!!!! For so long I believed it was my fault. I wasn't concentrating hard enough. I wasn't doing it right. I wasn't... I ..I ..I

Am I broken? Am I sexually dysfunctional? Am I mentally deranged? Horrible questions to ask of ones self but I did. Those hurtful queries only left me feeling empty and completely sexually frustrated. I wished deeply that I could be as orgasmic as my character, Catalina. The woman can cum at the drop of a hat, something I longed for. I have to admit I have a wonderful partner who is willing to try or do ANYTHING to help me get off. Regardless of his certainty and ambition nothing worked, which left us both frustrated. However, there is a silver lining and I have embraced it fully.

One sunny day I was watching a movie. (I can't remember which) My husband was gone for the day and I was all alone. In this flick, a woman was in the tub and used the shower head to pleasure herself. Now this is not the first time such an incident has been portrayed on the silver screen, however it is the first time I decided to try it. You see, I always assumed that the women in these scenes were using the shower heads internally. Which as you may have already deduced would require a woman to be, well how can I put this delicately, BIG. Regardless of my fears and uncertainty I pressed on. So, standing in the shower feeling silly and confused, I turned the dial to pulse and lowered the water stream to the void in my life. Instantly, I felt what I was searching for. I have used this device numerous times to clean myself but always in a purely functional way. This time I held the pressure steady on the tip of my clitoris and in a matter of moments I was experiencing the same feelings that countless songs, poems, and movies have been spawned from. RELEASE. That day I fell to the tub floor and allowed myself to revel in the exquisite pleasure that multiple orgasms can provide. I finally understood what all the hub-bub was all about.

I emerged from that shower a new woman. I vowed that I would explore all the many, many ways to relive that magical moment. Fortunately, I had a drawer full of toys covered in dust that had been gifted to me at my bachelorette party. I had tried some of these before, it's just that I didn't realize back then that I needed external stimulation. My partner rejoices in the fact that I have found my fabled G-Spot. Together we practice diligently with the hope of us finding it with out toys. I know a large part of my frustration is mental, and I am working on that as well.

For the times when one or the other is not in the mood we just read a few pages from my erotica novella, Catalina, Queen of the Nightlings, out loud. It always gets the juices flowing. I have never been one to enjoy porn, neither does my partner. But, when we read it, rather that watch it, we can visualize ourselves as the characters and it is totally erotic. I suggest you try anything that gets you horney. There is no shame in wanting to feel loved and sexy. Toys, lingerie, whips, chains, blindfolds, get creative.

One of my favorite toys is a small purple vibrator that has a slight curve at the tip. This toy is made by several manufacturers. In my next blog I will discuss the best ways to find an orgasm with this particular toy and all the good and bad details about it. I invite you to do the same. Please join the conversation. Tell me your story. I always thought I was alone. You do not need to feel that way. You and me makes two. How many others are out there? Together we can find a way to make toys for girls not boys.

All my Love & Gratitude

J. Lee Roberts

@catalinasden

catalinasden@gmail.com

http://catalinasden.wix.com/jleeroberts